Mr. Yang Jiang once said:
"Life is like a lonely journey, we meet all kinds of people on the road, some people pass by us, some people go with us." But in the end, we must face the unknown journey alone."
It is an undeniable fact that life comes with loneliness and then leaves alone.
In this world, no one can accompany us through life, those who love us and those who don't love us will be far away at some point.
Always accompany us, only a strong self.
1、The person you meet is to teach you to grow up.
The painter Carl Barks said:
"In life, we meet people who make us lose track of time, who change our world."
Our life is composed of a period and a period of experience, in which the role may be a parent, may be a friend, may be a lover.
They make a deep impression on us, bring us joy and pain, teach us to listen, learn to understand, learn to feel, and then become stronger ourselves.
Life is like a huge blind box, we never know, tomorrow will come out, is a surprise, or a shock.
So all you can do is cherish these encounters and look at everything with gratitude.
Fate comes, peace of mind to accept, enjoy the process of getting along, fate go, calmly accept, with blessings to meet the sun rise tomorrow.
2、Never, the real empathy.
"Do you really think people care about you? How many people do you think can relate to that? "
There is no need to tell your own story to others, just put your best foot forward.
Your good state of mind will heal everything, including those emotions, sadness, grievance, anxiety.
Not everyone in this world is a doctor, most of them are salt spreaders. Few people wish you well, and many people want to see your jokes.
You don't need to care too much about the outside world's evaluation of you, their understanding of you are one-sided, only you know the best, what kind of person you are.
There's a line in the movie Gatsby that says,
"Whenever you feel like criticizing anyone, just remember that not all the people in this world have had the advantages that you have had."
Some people were born in Rome, lived in big, luxurious houses, enjoyed a life of food and clothing, and surrounded themselves with friends every day.
Some people were born in poor mountain villages, living in dilapidated mud huts, eating sweet potatoes, steamed bread and vegetables, and helping their families at a young age.
How can these two people have the same knowledge?
There is no empathy in the world, you do not want others to understand you, others can not do, you can not get.
What we can do is to constantly strengthen our hearts, ensure that we can live on the premise of looking for a turning point in life, and climb forward step by step.
Life is lonely, the greatest person is yourself.
3、You are good, life will be better.
All things happen, has its own reason and law, everything, there is no fundamental good or bad.
Everyone has their own difficulties, everyone has their own mission, everyone has their own way to go, all the joys and sorrows, let nature take its course.
Remember, it's not that life is good and then you get better, it's that only you are good the life gets better .
If you really encounter hard things , you may as well try to explore and learn more about yourself, through reading, learning, living, and socializing, to enhance your recognition to the world .
When you have seen too many ups and downs, you can stand in a higher perspective to look at the development of a person, a society, a world, you will accept a lot of things.
A hundred years of life is nothing more than an experience, and learning to be peaceful and enjoy the moment is the best way to live.
