Only later did I understand that spiritual sustenance can be music, can be books, can be work, can be mountains, lakes and seas, but can not be people.
We often overestimate our weight in the hearts of others, but ignore our own inner strength.
When we pour all our emotions and expectations into another person, we are actually putting an invisible chain around ourselves.
This truth may require countless falls and disappointments to understand.
Putting all your hope in one person is like building a castle on the beach, which will eventually be washed away by the tide.
People can be a wonderful ornament in your life, but they can never be your only reliance.
Learn to love, but learn to love yourself more.
Only when you are able to support your own spiritual world independently can you truly enjoy the beauty of being with others.
When the storm of life comes, music and books are always the warmest haven.
Music is the language of the soul, whether it is an impassioned symphony or a soft ballad, it can touch our deepest emotions.
In the melody of notes, we can temporarily forget the troubles of reality and immerse ourselves in the pure beauty.
Music does not betray, it does not go away, it is always there, waiting for us to talk, to feel, to heal.
Or open a good book, between the lines, we can talk to the wise people of all times and in all countries, feel their joys and sorrows, and learn their life experience.
Books will not deceive you, will not hurt you, it will only quietly accompany you, let you grow in the ocean of knowledge.
Work is not only a means to make a living, but also one of the ways to realize oneself.
When we devote ourselves to work, we will feel an unprecedented sense of fulfillment, the achievement of every goal, every ability to improve, is the affirmation of self.
Work gives us not only material returns, but also spiritual satisfaction.
Nature, on the other hand, is the most precious gift God has given us. Facing the vast starry sky, the towering mountains, or the magnificent sea,
We will feel the smallness and the greatness of life.
In the embrace of nature, we can let go of all worries and sorrows and find inner peace.
Mountains, rivers, lakes and seas will not betray you, they will only accept all your joys and sorrows with the most authentic attitude.
Only later did I understand how dangerous and fragile it is to put all your hopes on one person.
Human heart change and things unpredictable.
As said in "One Hundred Years of Solitude" : "The essence of life is to live alone." We always want to find someone who can share our pain and sorrow, but most of the time, our earth-shattering pain, is just dust that is brushed carelessly In the eyes of others
The adult world, maybe this is it, Joys and sorrows pass by themselves
Only when you really focus on self-growth can your heart become strong, and you will not feel hopeless and self-negate because of the neglect, rejection or abandonment of others.
Life is still full of challenges, but you have the courage and strength to face everything.