In fact, people will slowly discover that what can accompany you until you are old is the heart that allows everything to happen.
It doesn't matter whether others love or not, being loved is the icing on the cake, not being loved, you learn to love yourself！
The novel "To Live" tells the story of an old man named Xu Fugui, whose life seems to have suffered the experiences of others for several lifetimes.
He was set up by the bad guys,
lost the house, pulled to do hard labor , lost his wife, lost children...
He experienced all kinds of hardships, not only did not fall down, but frankly laughed at life and tenaciously lived.
In this world, joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death are things that cannot be changed.
In the face of the ups and downs of life, if you always complain and depression, you can only fall into pain, unable to extricate yourself.
Know how to accept the impermanence of fate and allow everything to happen, then the suffering you have experienced can not cause greater harm to you.
Fugui's life in the second half of his life and the first half of his life, is a world of difference, poor he finally changed his fate, ushered in the dawn,
He learned to grow rice, accustomed to the life of coarse cloth and plain clothes, and realized the true meaning of life in the plain and trivial life.
Life has cracks, the sun can shine in, there is no eternal night, only the dawn that has not come.
No one's life is smooth sailing, ups and downs are the norm.
Do not forget the original heart when proud, do not lose faith when frustrated, always maintain a positive attitude, in order not to fear the wind and rain of life.
No matter what you are experiencing at the moment, you must adjust your mindset, continue to work hard, and continue to move forward.
Life is a self-improving practice, suffering and setbacks are tempering all the experience.
Whether sad or happy, is to meet a better self.
Nothing is more persuasive than time, because time without notice, we can change everything.
People will encounter this kind of difficulties in life, many times we want to get out of the trough quickly, but sometimes we have no choice but to "give it to the time".
This is not a depressed waiting, but after doing your best to let nature take its course.
Time has never said a word, but it will answer all your questions at some casual moment.
