There is a saying on the Internet: "Greatness is made through to endure the days ."
In fact, whether it is great or small, we must choose to endure.
It can be said that, endure the days , is the normal life, life inertia.
If you do not want to endure, dare not endure, do not go to endure, life will leave you, life will abandon you.
Always believe that you can survive the winter months, and greet you in spring.
1) Everything is bitter, learn to depend on yourself
Life is always helpless, just like a person in the middle of the night, driving home alone, tired, no goal and direction. You know you are very tired, in the forced support, but you still have to endure.
Life has to go on, life has to move on.
Only if you learn to rely on yourself, reduce expectations, accumulate strength,
Move in the direction of your choice.
As they say in One Hundred Years of Solitude:
"The essence of life is to live alone and not to expect too much from others."
2、Through enduring a day and a day to become outstanding
Enduring is a kind of willpower, and an efficient way to grow that inspires and improves oneself.
It can be said that if people want to become outstanding, they must rely on endurance.
Only in the endurance process, wholeheartedly to experience the pain of growth, experience the pain of cognition, in reality, constantly open the horizon, harvest opportunities, achieve goals, have greater and more life possibilities.
enduring is the way to grow the most quickly and consistently.
But we should also be clear that the vast majority of people in life are unwilling to endure, unable to endure.
Therefore, this is why most people in the world are mediocre, even useless, unsuccessful people.
However, this is also in line with the 80/20 law of human beings, which is that those good beings are always a few, and always cannot be achieved by the majority of people.
3、Get through it, and your life gets better and better
So, instead of expecting others to help you, learn to be on your own.
Even if it is difficult in the early stage, we must face it on our own.
The more a person can endure, the easier it is to become outstanding.
Even, more and more quickly, more securely let themselves succeed, to achieve victory in life.
Yu Hua wrote in the book:
"Man lives for the sake of life itself, not for the sake of anything other than life."
In life, never be afraid to endure, but believe that the more you endure, the more you can taste the essence of life and the deliciousness of life