Why do many people fail to hold onto the money they earn? The real gap lies in the "base position thinking" and "exit ability".

Why do many people fail to hold onto the money they earn? The real gap lies in the "base position thinking" and "exit ability".

Some failures do not occur suddenly.

Every time we hear about the collapse of those enterprises, we feel an indescribable heaviness.

That is not an ordinary failure; It is the zeroing out of years of accumulation for an individual, or even an entire generation.

Some people not only lose everything, but even become negative.

We tend to interpret it as "bad luck" or "the times have changed".

But if we take a calm look back, you will find: Many collapses did not occur overnight;
Rather, they were long-term imbalances that erupted suddenly at a certain point.

Making money and managing money are two completely different abilities.

Most people assume one thing:
People who are good at making money are also good at managing money.
But the reality is quite the opposite.
You can interpret it as two separate systems:

1) Profit-making ability (offensive system)
•    Seize opportunities
•    Expand profits
•    Assume risks
2) Money-handling ability (defensive system)
•    Control risks
•    Diversify assets
•    Manage cash flow

The problem is:
Most people only have the "offensive system" but no "defensive system".

Expansion is not wrong. The wrong thing is "having no reserve funds".

Many people have begun to reflect: Is expansion itself wrong?
The answer is: No.

The real question is: Have you prepared for the worst-case scenario?
This is a key concept:
-- Bottom Stock Thinking (Survival First)

In simple terms:
No matter how much you try, you must leave some resources, to ensure that -- even if everything fails, you can still survive.

Why is this so important?

Let's take a look at a typical case of long-term capital allocation:

The Japanese Government Pension Investment Fund (GPIF),It adopts a very conservative allocation approach:

• 25% domestic stocks
• 25% domestic bonds
• 25% foreign stocks
• 25% foreign bonds

It may seem not very aggressive, but the underlying logic is very clear:
It does not pursue the maximum return, but only ensures that it will not be eliminated.

The same logic applies to both enterprises and individuals.

You can divide all resources into three categories:

Type For example Function
Offensive Expansion/investment Seek growth
Stable Cash flow Keep operation
Defensive Reserve  Defend against risks


And most failures boil down to just one sentence: All the chips were bet on the offensive. 

The real risk is not losing money, but "getting out of the game".

In "The Psychology of Money", there is an extremely important point:

The key to success is not how many times you get it right, but whether you can avoid a fatal mistake.

A more realistic way to express it:
•    Loss of 10% → Can recover
•    Loss of 50% → Very difficult to recover
•    Zeroing out → Everything is over

Therefore, the first principle of financial management is not to make money, but:
Not to be wiped out.  

Instead, it ensures that your life won't be completely ruined by a single accident.

The real risk is not losing money, but "getting out of the game".

If "bottom position thinking" addresses the issue of - not losing everything,

then there is another more difficult but more crucial ability: Can one leave in time when the direction is wrong?  

I often ponder on a question: If we could have seen the risks earlier, wouldn't we have avoided many costs?

But the reality is:

Most people only truly understand risks after they have paid the price. And precisely because of this, I suddenly recalled a very simple saying:

-- Go early and return early
It was originally used to describe a relationship: If it doesn't work out, leave early.
But this saying actually applies to everything:

• An incorrect investment
• A misguided career
• A choice that constantly drains you

Why is "withdrawal" so difficult?

Because it is fighting against human nature:

•    Not willing to give up the costs already invested
•    Not willing to admit making a mistake
•    Regarding "persisting" as the only correct answer

But you need to distinguish one thing:
Persisting in the right thing is long-termism, Being stubborn in the wrong direction is a risk amplifier

What is money really? Many people think:
•    Money is security
•    Money is success
But the reality is closer to this: Money is just an amplifier. It will amplify your:
•    Cognition
•    Decision-making
•    Risk

[There is nothing in this world that can more truly reflect your comprehensive ability than making money.]

Conclusion

Some people lose because they fail to make money, but many more lose because —
after making money, they fail to establish a system.

True financial management is not about making the money grow, but about ensuring that your life won't be wiped out by a single accident.

And the premise of long-termism is never to keep going, but rather — having the ability to stop when you are wrong.

 

-------Extended Reading and Resource-------

you have ever wondered - Why do some people earn relatively little but manage to accumulate wealth over time;
while others earn a lot but end up with nothing in the end, Then,
【The Psychology of Money】 will give you a completely different answer. 

This book hardly covers complex investment strategies, nor does it teach you how to get rich quickly. What it truly explores is: How people deal with money. 

The books and tools  I mentioned are part of my curated toolkit. If you're interested, I've compiled them all on  [My reading list ] &  [My everyday toolkit] page for easy access.


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