Yang Jiang said: There is always a period difficult road in life to go .
It's no use complaining, because time won't stop for you; It's no use crying, because others can't bear it for you . If you step back, there are many people who look at your jokes; If you move forward, you have a chance to prove yourself."
Life in the world, unsatisfactory nine out of ten, really can not carry, complain a few words, a good cry, nothing to be ashamed of.
The bitterness and tiredness of life make people overwhelmed, and there will always be a few moments when they are out of breath under heavy pressure.
Complaining is like opening a window to the depressed heart, so that those negative emotions can breathe.
When the tears come out, the pain, grievance and helplessness that have accumulated in our heart also flow out.
On the road of life, difficulties and setbacks follow us, we can allow ourselves to complain and cry when we are tired.
But more to learn to dry the tears, let yourself out of the mood as soon as possible, immersed in negative emotions, will only make yourself more and more vulnerable.
01、Complaining is like a mire, the more you get stuck, the worse your luck
Helen Keller said, "Every misfortune is an opportunity to grow."
Basketball superstar Michael Jordan was not selected for the high school basketball team, which was a huge blow to him who loved basketball.
But Jordan did not complain, he took the setback as motivation to train harder, improve his game, and eventually, he became one of the greatest players in basketball history.
02、Crying is a soft knife, the more crying the more helpless
There is a saying: "If you are not strong, who will be brave for you?"
It's okay to cry and vent your emotions once in a while, but tears won't change the situation.
In the movie "The Pursuit of Happyness," the hero Chris is broke, divorced, and sleeps in a subway bathroom with his son. In the face of such a situation, Chris did not despair, he tried to find a job, while taking care of his son, and finally succeeded in counterattacking and living a good life.
Life will not be merciful to you because you cry, it will only bully those weak people, who do not want to experience those miserable things, But now that it's happening, you have to be strong.
There is a saying:
"The sword is sharp from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from the bitter cold."
On this journey of life, no one can hide from several periods of difficult roads, the real strong, after complaining and crying, can quickly adjust their mentality and bravely face the challenges of life.
