A wise woman must find the spiritual foothold within herself. In fact, true growth lies in nourishing oneself in solitude. In reality, managing oneself is far more important than managing any relationship. Shift your energy to a broader realm and a broader life. Surrounding your life's flame, a wise woman must find the spiritual foothold within herself.
Women, unless they have experienced the ups and downs of life, it is very difficult for them to truly understand and follow the instructions in this passage.
When life is repeatedly mercilessly battered, and emotions are repeatedly brutally attacked, only after the pain subsides can one realize that truly being oneself is the best form of redemption, and truly being oneself is the ultimate joy.
Because a happy woman wouldn't think like this. I'm living a good life now, with my husband's love and a superior lifestyle. Lying in such a cozy environment, why should I bother to "manage" myself? It's enough for me to manage my family well.
Indeed, with such a wonderful life, why should we seek independence? But what about many unfortunate women who don't have such good fortune? How should they deal with it?
A professor's wife resigned from her job to take care of her successful painter husband. She raised him into a wooden figure who only knew how to paint but had no knowledge of household chores or caring for his wife. At this point, this old lady realized that her efforts in this generation were too unjust and not worthwhile!
Back then, she was also a highly talented person with her own wonderful career, but she chose to follow the path of selfless dedication for her husband. When she grew old, she suddenly woke up and felt extremely aggrieved, believing that her such efforts would not receive any response or respect from her husband.
How many young girls, and even their families, believe that as long as they get married well, they can be considered the winners of life?
How many of those who married wealthy men due to their youthful beauty can enjoy a happy life for the rest of their lives?
Not a few end up with business failures or marital infidelities. Those who bet their happiness on marriage end up with disastrous outcomes in the end.
The wealthy men either fail in their business or cheat in their marriages. Those who bet their own happiness on marriage end up in total failure in the end.
An enterprise must always pay attention to risk control. As women, we should also always have a sense of risk awareness. At no time should we completely give up on ourselves.
Don't take the world of tenderness as your ultimate refuge. Early on, cultivate your own independent personality and consciousness.
Just as fathers often say to their daughters: "Sweetheart, you must learn to cook. After you get married, your husband cherishes you, you don’t have to, but you definately knew how."
So, ladies, you must learn to be independent and grow spiritually. Build a solid wall for yourself at all times to protect yourself from being attacked by the outside world.