There is only one real success, and that is to live your own life in your own way.
Looking back on the past, when I was a student , I felt that forgetting to bring homework was a big deal, when I was in high school, I felt that it is a big deal that I could not get into college, and when I was in love, I felt that I separated from the person I liked was a big deal.
Looking back now, those obstacles that once felt difficult to cross have long since become insignificant under the wash of time.
We slowly learned to accept, accept those who had regrets and helplessness.
Regret is a normal part of life.
No matter what choice we made at the beginning, we are not qualified to stand at the height of the present to criticize ourselves in the past.
Even if we had to do it again, with our minds and experiences at that time, we would probably make the same choice.
Life is like this, no matter how to choose, there will be regrets.
So, no need to look back, no need to dwell on the past.
Accept impermanence, accept loneliness and frustration, accept the sudden feeling of powerlessness, and accept the confusion and insecurity of the moment.
Life is short and there is no one right answer.
Regret is common, and forgiveness is a necessary course in life.
