If you don't have a good family or a good partner, you must awaken a strong self."
The family of origin is the starting point we cannot choose.
Some people are born with the key to gold, with great resources and endless love; Others grew up in poverty or disharmony.
But this does not mean that the family of origin is not good, our life is doomed to be bleak.
On the contrary, it can be a driving force for us to move forward, prompting us to break through difficulties and create our own light.
Husband and wife partners are important companions on the road of life.
Finding a partner who supports each other and grows together is undoubtedly a blessing.
But if you fail to do so, you cannot give up your love and pursuit of life.
In fact, the first two items are to a large extent the hope placed on others, only the awakening of their own can be firmly grasped by their own hands.
If the passive has no choice, and the active chooses the wrong one, there is only self-revolution left.
Then self-awakening, rely on their own self-breaking, self-transcendence.
The real transformation begins when we realize that we cannot rely on external conditions to change our fate.
Awakening means no longer complaining about the shortcomings of the original family, but using a positive attitude to make up for those missing love and support;
Awakening means not putting all your hopes on your partner, but learning to be independent and have your own dreams and pursuits.
When we awaken our strong self, we will find that there is endless power within.
We can constantly improve ourselves and master new skills through study. Be brave enough to try something you've never done before and break out of your comfort zone. In the face of difficulties, you can firmly tell yourself "I can do it".
Do you know the bamboo law?
For the first few years, bamboo seems to be going nowhere, but it actually takes root underground and gathers strength. When the time is right, it grows rapidly and shoots into the sky.
The same is true in life. Before awakening, we may go through a long period of hibernation, feeling confused, frightened and even hopeless.
But as long as we stick to our inner beliefs and continue to accumulate and precipitate, one day, we can also usher in the "outbreak period" of life.
At that time, others may only see the brilliance of the moment, only we know that this is the result of countless days and nights of perseverance and hard work.
Try to be a better you! In short, we should cheer for ourselves.